How Do You Get Your Ex Back? Try This Killer Advice

Love is a strange emotion at times, some are wonderful feelings while others can be devastating. Remember the butterfly feeling when you suddenly wake up one morning and could not wait to see your girlfriend or boyfriend later that day.

That is the time it will most likely hit you, and you realised you were head over heels in love with them.

However the other side of that coin is the feeling of devastation, you are now someone who feels like your world is ending and the only thing on your mind is "how do you get your ex back?"

Every effort you make seems to push your ex partner further away from you. This can feel like a hopeless situation and your ex even more unattainable. Using the pestering approach will only lead to not getting your ex back in your arms.

I know how serious you are about getting him/her back, or you would not be looking for help with the situation you have found yourself in.

So here is a little advice to help you:
The first thing you need to do is, stop giving your ex possible reasons to shut you out of their life.

The more often you contact your ex, the more they will feel in control and this is not a good thing to have happen. I know it is difficult to go against your feelings towards your ex, but this is a step you must take, you can call it the first step in which you will need to take if you want the answer to "how do you get your ex back?"

Constantly sending text messages, making phone calls and worse following and staking your ex will build a wall between you... that once built will never be broken down.

Stay clear from pestering I know its hard at this time, but the more control you pass to your ex the more powerful they will feel.

If you're ex feels, they have the upper hand in the brake-up the less likely your ex will want to start rebuilding the broken bridges between you until they feel good and ready to do so.

Love is a strange and wonderful thing and there is no doubt in my mind that you're ex girl/boyfriend will also be missing you, just as much as you are missing them.

We have all won and lost in love, but once in a lifetime we meet the one we love the most and we want to know the answer to the same old question, "how do you get your ex back?"